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Don’t Screw Up The Sales Pitch! How eCommerce Sellers Forget To Sell With Jeremy Miner – 278

In episode 278 of the AM/PM Podcast, Tim and Jeremy discuss:

  • 02:00 – We’re Talking About Selling
  • 04:45 – Selling Principles That Applies To All Industries
  • 07:45 – Why Does The Ability To Sell Matter For Ecommerce Sellers?
  • 08:30 – Non-Sales Selling And How You Do It Everyday
  • 11:00 – What You Need To Understand In The Marketplace
  • 14:00 – Be Problem Finders And Solvers, Not Product Pushers
  • 15:45 – There Are Products That Solve An Emotional Need
  • 18:30 – Every Product That’s Ever Been Sold Solves Something
  • 20:30 – You Got To Be Good In Problem Finding
  • 24:00 – You’re Not Selling The Thing, You Sell What It Does
  • 25:00 – Biggest Mistakes When You’re Trying To Sell
  • 28:30 – You Need To Come Off “Detached”
  • 30:15 – Get Free Resources From Jeremy’s Facebook Group

Transcript

Tim Jordan:

Sometimes in the world of e-commerce, we forget that we actually have to sell products. We throw listings up, assume they’re gonna sell themselves and they don’t. Today’s guest is an expert in selling, and he’s going to take his massive amount of experience and put it in the concept and kind of some general ideas that we as e-commerce sellers can understand, but oftentimes forget to use. It’s gonna be a good episode. Listen to the end. Here we go.

Tim Jordan:

Hey, everybody. Welcome to another episode, the AM/PM Podcast, I’m your host, Tim Jordan, and today we are talking about selling. Now, normally in the e-commerce world, we talk about selling. We’re talking about optimizing our PPC ads, and we’re talking about getting on another sales channel. But one of the things that we frequently forget about is we have to cause a consumer to make a decision. We have to get them to actually decide to purchase this product, right? And a lot of times we don’t think about the psychology or the process or the branding or any of those things that go into it. So we have one of the.., I guess it’s safe to say top producing salesmen. If that’s the.., they probably say it in the country, maybe the world, who’s going to share some of his experience. So welcome to the podcast, Jeremy Miner.

Jeremy:

Well, there you go, Tim. Thanks for all the nice words and accolades my kids, say I’m pretty boring. So I’m gonna take all that as a compliment. Thanks, it’s good to be on your show, man. I’ve actually listened to some of your shows here the last couple weeks and well done. You’re given a lot of value. People are learning things to help their businesses. So you just ask away and I’ll do my best to help these people listening in.

Tim Jordan:

Cool. So I want to first talk about kind of your background cuz understanding what somebody’s expertise is, gives a little bit of credibility that sometimes the crazy ideas that we throw up, but also gives a little bit of perspective into why you see the world, the way that you do. Now. When I started this off, I said that you were one of the highest producing selling guys around. And the stat I have here from the direct telling association is you were listed as the 45th highest earner in what the country?

Jeremy:

It’s actually the world. So that’s by the direct selling association. So it’s an international ranking of the highest, the top highest paid producing sales people in any industry. So you’re talking, you know, you’re talking to a few hundred million sales people in any industry. So I held that ranking as the number 45 in the world, back in my sales career for about seven years straight before I pretty much semi-retired and then a year later, about three years ago, started seventh level as a sales training organization.

Tim Jordan:

That’s a amazing seventh level. Yeah, really boring. So seventh levels an organization that I know you work with, some of the biggest companies out there, you work with Google AdWords, you said you work with Kia motors, you’ve worked with some of the biggest you know, thought leaders in, especially the digital marketing space and things like that, which I assume gives you a lot of experience in what we’re gonna be talking about today. Right?

Jeremy:

We do. Yeah. Supposedly we do. I mean, we, you know, like one of our biggest clients is Ryan Serhant the star of Million Dollar List in New York, we train his sales people that sell like his coaching program that teach people how to, you know, brand themselves as real estate agents with the more social media followers. You know, we train people like Josh Crisp, you know, Joshua Crisp, like big Amazon, you know, SBA programs. So we train a lot of people in the e-commerce space, but it’s all over. I mean, we train over 147 industries at this point, for sure.

Tim Jordan:

And I find that interesting, you know, over 147 industries, you said, I assumed, I guess I’ve always assumed that every industry needs its own type of selling. Like it’s all done differently, but is there a set of generally known and understood principles that apply to all industries?

Jeremy:

Yeah. Well, I mean, the reason why we’ve been able to duplicate those results in any industry we trained, like we just, you know, the other day I noticed we train, we hire, we got on board a huge seatbelt manufacturer out of Berlin, Germany that sells seat belts to like range Rover and BMW and Rolls-Royce. I mean, I never even thought that seat belts need to be sold, but apparently, they do. Right? So our process is all about like from A to Z, like connecting questions to situation, how do we connect with the buyer? Okay. If you’ve got a sales team listening to right now, how do you your sales people, you know, connect with your buyer, take the focus off of them in the beginning of that call or conversation, and put it on them.

Jeremy:

Then we move into like situation questions. How do we find out what their current situation really is? And a lot of this has to do with marketing too. And branding, we teach a lot of this in our courses and that, and then we move into problem awareness questions. How do we help the prospect realize they even have a problem? Cause most people don’t E realize they have a problem. You first start talking to them or maybe they don’t understand how bad the problem really is. Or maybe they don’t understand the consequences of what happened if they don’t do anything about solving the problems now through your advanced questioning, once you learn those skills and it doesn’t matter to the industry, not only are you able, and this could be even ad copy two, not only you able to help them find that they have one problem, but now you’re able to help them see in their mind that they have two, three or four other problems that they didn’t even think they had.

Jeremy:

And when you’re able to get the prospect to start viewing it that way, you’re not telling them what their problems are. Cuz that’s gonna go in one ear out the other, cuz you’re biased, right? You’re trying to sell them something. But the questions you’re asking them are allowing them to see what those real problems are. Okay. And how those problems are affecting them. When they see that from your questioning, they start to view you differently. They start to view you not does some, you know, salesperson that’s just trying to stuff your solution down your throat. They start to view you as more of the expert or like the trusted authority. Who’s going to get them the results they want. So we teach a process from connecting questions to situation, to problem awareness, to solution awareness, questions, to consequence questions like what are the consequences if they don’t do anything about changing their situation, right?

Jeremy:

Like what happens in, what are the ramifications all the way to, how do you package that into a presentation that emotionally connects instead of just boring them and how do we get them to commit to take the next step and actually purchase what we’re offering? So we take that sales structure and we can go to a company like Google AdWords and train the four biggest divisions. We got them a 244% increase in sales in the first quarter when we came in. Okay. They’d never seen that they had audit. They audited the results four times cuz they didn’t believe it actually, which was crazy. I thought we’d actually do better for them. I was disappointed. And then we can go over to Kia motors. We can go or to like, you know, a guy like Joshua Crisp and like sell his, his Amazon SBA stuff, teaches people how to do that. So we can take that structure in any industry and get duplicatable results. As far as we know, we’re the only company that’s been able to do that. So I don’t know. We’re bragging a little bit now.

Tim Jordan:

So it sounds great. Right? Like I’m picking up what you’re putting down, I’m buying it. Sure. But is it relevant to eCommerce sellers, right? Like why does the ability to sell matter? Why do we need to know how to sell as we’re selling a physical product? Probably not face to face.

Jeremy:

Well, think about it. If you’re an eCommerce seller, do you have meetings where you’re trying to persuade maybe a certain media buyer to take you on? Do you have meetings with like, you know, your manufacturer where you’re trying to negotiate down? I mean we’re all in sales now, right? It doesn’t matter what we do. Like even if you don’t get paid a commission. Okay if you don’t get paid a commission, what are you out there trying to do? You’re still trying to persuade. You’re trying to influence. You’re trying to convince. You’re trying to move others. We even have a name called non-sale selling. So you’re actually practicing a non-sale selling. So let me give you an example. If you’re an e-commerce business owner, okay, and you’re trying to get your employees to follow your vision of where you want to take your company. Well, what are you doing? Right. You’re trying to persuade. You’re trying to influence. You’re trying to move others.

Jeremy:

If you’re an employee, let’s say that you’re an employee listening to this. I don’t know. Maybe you have some employees on here. You’re trying to convince the boss to give you a pay raise. Well, what are you trying to do? You’re trying to persuade. You’re trying to convince. You’re trying to move others. If you’re a freaking attorney trying to convince the jury that your client’s innocent, what are you doing? You’re trying to influence. You’re trying to persuade. I mean, hell, everybody talks about politics now. If you’re a politician trying to get people to vote for you, what are you doing? You’re trying to persuade influence. You’ve got kids. You’re trying to get them to do their homework. You’re trying to persuade influence. So it doesn’t matter what you do. You’re an e-commerce business owner. You’re in meetings. You’re trying to persuade people and move them to do what you want them to do to get better deals. I hate to tell you, but you’re in sales.

Tim Jordan:

I was in a one of my mastermind meetings last night actually. And one of my students was asking me about, you know, the long term game plan, which I believe in e-commerce, not every product needs a brand, right? Sometimes you just throw small products up, you make some money, you move on, you don’t create like a whole brand presence around it. He said, well, if we’re trying to build a business to sell shouldn’t we have a brand. And I said, wait, your business, isn’t the product, your business is bigger than that. Maybe your business is a bunch of unbranded products until you find the ones that are. So what you’re saying is resonating with me from that recent conversation. We sometimes as e-commerce business owners, I say we like like our tribe of e-commerce sellers. Think that what we’re doing is we’re trying to get someone to buy a product when it’s actually bigger than that. You’re right. We’re trying to negotiate with suppliers. We’re trying to build a team. We’re trying to work strategic partnerships. We’re trying to convince our clearing agent to prioritize our paperwork to get our container out of the port, faster, everything that we do in business, this is much larger than just what we think the public perceived goal is, which is to sell more products in a given day. And I’ve never thought about that.

Jeremy:

It’s all about influence and precision. We are literally every day of the week, every out, I mean, anytime you’re in a meeting, you are literally trying to persuade people to do things for you. But yeah. And I think, you know, kind of leading into that, I’m glad you brought that up. I think one of the biggest myths out there that entrepreneurs believe in and let’s, let’s talk about branding. Let’s talk about like how you’re perceived in the marketplace is they feel that if they have this great product or they have these great products that just people are just gonna line up and wanna buy them. And we actually call that we have a term in seventh level called pushing. So we call those product pushers. Right? So here’s what we have to understand in the marketplace, especially today, especially after the collapse of, you know, Wall Street and, and the great recession in 2008, 2009.

Jeremy:

And especially now with COVID and all that stuff, your prospects are even more cautious and skeptical about making the wrong buying choices than they have ever been before. And why is that? You know, one of the, one of our clients’ name is Brendan Kane. I don’t know if you’re familiar with Brandon, but he’s the author of.. he’s a big social media influencer. He does like Taylor Swift’s account Rihanna’s MTV. So he’s like these big Hollywood influencers as far as like, he has a company that teaches business on how to scale their social media. As far as like getting followers on IG, Facebook, all those TikTok, all that stuff. And in his book, Hook Point: How to Stand Out in a 3-second World. Okay. He says, and I’m quoting him right now. I actually took this note down. I wanna bring this up. He says “there are over 3 billion content creators every day trying to attract your prospects away from what you’re doing.” Okay. So if you’re an e-commerce and you’re advertising out there, well guess what? There’s over 3 billion other content creators that are trying to take the attention away from the people that you’re trying to get to buy your products. You are even competing with 13 year old teenagers on TikTok at this point. Now guess how many creators there were 20 years ago? Take a wild to guess.

Tim Jordan:

10,000?

Jeremy:

There was a million, which I thought I was like, wow, there was a million.

Tim Jordan:

We’ve worked more all, but that’s still fractional compared to today.

Jeremy:

From 1 million to over 3 billion. Okay. And that’s because of the information age that we live in today, we live with the power of the internet, especially social media. You have to realize that your prospects are being sold to 24 hours a day, seven days a week, month after month, year after year. So they build up this like defensive wall, like these mechanisms that certain things you say, maybe in your ad copy, or if you’ve got a salesperson, certain things, they say trigger sales resistance. And I want you to think about that. Cause when I bring this up at events, people are like, oh no, I don’t get sold to all the time. Like I’m not on sales calls all the day. I’m like, oh really? Maybe you’re not thinking about it, but subconsciously you are because when you wake up in the morning, what’s the first thing you do.

Jeremy:

You grab your phone, you check Facebook or IG and you see ads trying to sell you something. Right? You go into the kitchen. You’re like, oh my gosh, like I’m so tired. I gotta, maybe if you’re an e-commerce seller, you’re working from your home office, but you go in to get the coffee, you turn on the TV and what do you see? Commercials trying to sell you something you get in the car because you’re like, oh man, I gotta go down to my office or whatever. I gotta go to the grocery store and you turn on the radio and what do you hear? Ads trying to sell you something. You get home for lunch, you start eating lunch. Then you get back on social media. And you notice that aunt Jane is trying to pitch her newest, greatest MLM you should join somebody trying to sell something.

Jeremy:

You get back in the car to go to dinner. You drive down the road, you see billboards on the side of the road, doing what? Trying to sell you something. We are constantly being sold all of the time, 24 hours a day because we have to realize that. So as a business owner or a coach or whoever you are a salesperson, you have to really start to understand that we have to amplify our persuasion ability or we just get left behind in life. We have to be called. We have to become what we call problem finders and problem solvers, not product pushers. And that can be in your ad copy. That can be in your ads. It can be on the phone. If you’ve got a sales team, it doesn’t matter. Now I want everybody to grab a piece of paper unless you’re driving down the road, don’t run over or anybody or anything.

Jeremy:

And I want you to think about and write down these questions. If you, if you don’t, if you’re driving, just kind of remember this in your mind. First question I have for you is do your prospects have problems? Now, does everybody know that’s listening? Do your prospects actually have problems? I’m assuming they do right? Cuz every product or services ever been made solves a problem, right? That otherwise there’s no product or service that’s made. Okay. Now I want you to write down two of the biggest problems that your product or service, whatever you sell actually solves. So what are–

Tim Jordan:

And let me pause you for a second too, because I think that a lot of our listeners right now, as they’re going to exercise are thinking, well, my products don’t solve a problem. It’s not a joint ink cream. It’s not an orthotic shoe insert. It’s not row game, but some of the most successful like eCommerce products solve the problem of, I wish I was cooler, right? Like why do people wear Rolodex or Rolexes? They don’t wear a Rolex cuz they need to know what the time is. They wear a Rolex because they’re trying to get convince themselves everybody else. That they’re–

Jeremy:

You know what problem that solves? It solves an emotional need. Okay. There’s products that solve emotional need. So like, let’s say we train a big exotic car dealership. Okay. And I remember coming in, this was a couple years ago when we were newer and they’re like, we man, like dude, like people like the manager was like, yeah, I mean these cars four or 500,000 Rolls-Royce, Bentley, like dude, people only rich people come here. They don’t have any problems. They just, they like the car. They buy it. I’m like, oh really? Let me tell you a little bit of a story. And this was a few years before when I had retired. I said, you know what? When I was about to retire, I actually bought a really the expensive Maserati. It was like 190,000. It was like the most expensive car I’d ever bought. You know?

Jeremy:

And I’m like, do you know why I bought that car? He’s like, no, why’d you buy it? I’m like, well it wasn’t from getting up and going from point A to point B, cuz I could have just bought like a used Toyota for that. Right. Do you know why I bought that car? Because when I was a kid, my parents, my dad lost his job, became disabled. And we went from a middle class family to being poor. And I remember as a 12 year old going into baseball practice and instead of the Nike cleats that I always had on my parents had to buy me cleats from Walmart and everybody made fun of me. And as a 12 year old, I remember thinking in my mind, I’m never gonna be poor. Like I have to prove everybody wrong.

Jeremy:

And it just drove me for so many years to have success. And outlearn everybody that when I finally got to that level, I’m like, I need my neighbors to know of my status. I need to know my family I’ve succeeded. That car was part of solving an emotional need. And like when I said that they’re like jaws just dropped. It was like, they had a revelation. They’re like, so you’re telling me that people buy a $400,000 a car for an emotion. I’m like, yeah, because they wanna be seen as successful because it doesn’t solve a problem of going to the grocery store to home. You could buy a freaking, you know, ski on or whatever they’re called. You could buy a $10,000 car. It solves an emotional need. So any product or service that has ever been made or invented, solves an emotional need like I’ll give you an example of another emotional need. So we won Inc 5,000 fastest scoring companies in 2021.

Jeremy:

Okay. We were ranked. So they ranked, you know, they ranked the top 5,000 fastest scoring companies. Us, we were ranked like 1,232, but we were ranked number one fastest sales training company in the United States. So what do we do to solve an emotional need with my other business owner and our employees, we went and bought all these cool plaques from them. And we bought all these like cool pictures. And we spent like 15 grand on all that stuff. Now, do we need all that stuff? No, but it solved an emotionally because we wanted our clients when they came into one of our buildings to see that we were very successful. See, I mean, you wouldn’t think a picture would solve an emotional need with reward on it, but it does. And that’s why we’re willing to pay that much. So any product or service that’s ever been sold solves something.

Jeremy:

So let’s go back into that. SoI liked that you brought that up.

Tim Jordan:

That was the question. Do your prospects have problems? Do your potential clients, do your potential buyers have a problem?

Jeremy:

So everybody has a problem. Doesn’t matter what you sell. Okay. That’s why they click on your ad or anything. There’s something like, oh, I need that because it’s gonna do this for me or that, or it’s gonna get me this, okay. They’re either moving away from pain or they want something better. Those are the two things, right? Now, with those two problems. Ask yourself. I look at the two problems on my piece of paper. Does my solution solve those two things? Now everybody, when I ask that in an audience, doesn’t matter the industry, they raise your hand. Okay. So if your prospects have problems, your solution solves those, then why is everybody not buying from you?

Jeremy:

Okay. So I always ask sales people that especially, okay. So if you’re a business owner here and you’ve got sales people, why are those people not actually buying from those people? And when I always hear people are like, oh, well, you know, we need to get our sales people to have a better mindset or we need to have them journal more. Like we need to bring them to more personal development events. I’m like, you know, what has nothing to do with any of that? It’s not your leads. It’s not that you don’t meditate enough. It doesn’t matter if you get up at four in the morning or listen to enough Tony Robbins, even though I love Tony Robbins or you don’t work hard enough, everybody works hard. It’s what you are saying. Even in your ads or if you’re, you know, have sales people, it’s what they’re saying on the phone or on zoom or whatever.

Jeremy:

And it’s most importantly what you’re not asking, that’s triggering your prospects to run the other way. Okay. See, in our day and age, like I was talking about, we have to be, we have to look at ourselves in our branding, in our marketing, in our sales, we have to view ourselves as problem finders and problem solvers. Okay? It’s not even enough in our day and age to be good at problem solving. Like there’s a bunch of sales books back here on this bookshelf. They all say you have to be great at problem solving, but the problem is if they don’t buy from you can’t really solve their problems in our day and age. And even in your marketing branding, you have to be better at problem finding. Okay. And what that means is you’re helping prospects realize that they actually have a problem in the first place. Okay?

Jeremy:

Once we’re able to do that, they start to become open to our suggestions on how we can actually solve their problems. Now, what do we find most business owners are or sales people are. We call them product pushers. Okay. They think they can ask maybe a few questions or write some cool copy or say their product is the latest, greatest, this, or that. And they think that they can go into that sales pitch talking about the features. And this could be in your ads too, features and benefits of the product and service and how they have the best, this, and the best that, which by the way, how many companies do we know of or sales people that have tried to sell us something that said their product and service is the best. That’s everybody. Everybody says that. Okay. So when we say those type of things, it’s almost like your prospect psychologically trust us less because they’re used to everybody saying that it’s like, if you watch the bachelor and the host comes on, my wife makes me watch the bachelor every Monday night.

Jeremy:

And the host comes on, like, this is the most dramatic season of all time. And the craziest season of all time. Well, they send that 22 years straight. So at this point, it’s like, you don’t believe them. And you’re like, oh, come on, man. You guys have said that 20 years straight, like give me a break. And that’s like taking a bucket of mud and like throwing it up against the wall, hoping and praying that something we’re gonna say in our ads or hoping and praying something our salespeople are gonna say is just gonna magically, you know, trigger the prospect to just, you know, open up their wallets and buy. Okay. So I call that hopium, it’s a drug that so many entrepreneurs and sales people on where they just hope and pray something they’re gonna say in their ads or on the phone is just gonna magically make that person wanna do something. And it’s a hard and very unpredictable way to make a living for sure.

Tim Jordan:

And it’s so true. I mean, gosh, there’s been so many products that I’ve even sold myself where that’s, what I do is I just spray and pray. Right. I throw it up there and I hope that it sticks and I hope that people buy it. And I’m like, you know, I’m not thinking about what that problem solves. I’m not thinking about either fixing a problem or making something better. And I’m already thinking about some of the most I don’t know, interesting brands that I’ve been watching, one of them is called solo stove. Right? I got one for Christmas. I don’t know if you’ve seen this thing, but it’s basically a stainless steel fire pit. That’s all it is. And it’s like $300. It’s ridiculous expensive. But when I think about why I bought it, I bought it. Not because I want fire pit that I can have in my back deck. If you look at all the marketing, it’s showing family time, right? It’s either showing like the parents with their kids roasting a marshmallow on the back deck. So it’s selling the idea of togetherness or their copy and ads and all that are selling the idea of cool. Like it shows the guys sitting around a campfire, you know, at the fishing lake. And like you’re showing off to your buddies. This is my really cool man.

Jeremy:

See what emotional needs that solving is solving emotional need of family time. It’s showing the emotional need of like togetherness with friends reconnecting. That’s what it’s solving. That’s what’s sold you.

Tim Jordan:

And I’ve never really thought about that. Yeah. But if I look at some of these really brands recently, that’s what they’re doing is they’re convincing me. I need it. Not because I need it because I need the results of it. And–

Jeremy:

Yeah, you’re a hundred percent, right? Like, so many people, you know, like even in e-commerce, it doesn’t really matter. You know, think that, Hey, I’m selling this product. No, you’re not selling a product. You’re not selling the service. You’re selling the results of what that product or service does for them. Like you’re not selling the thing. You’re like you said, you’re selling the results of what that thing does for them. And once you get that in your mind, selling becomes really easy.

Tim Jordan:

I’m writing this down. We don’t sell a thing. We sell a result. I do this all the time.

Jeremy:

You’re just selling the results of what that thing does for the, you’re never selling a thing. Like if you’re, I mean, I know your audience is not like, let’s say you’re a real estate agent. You’re not selling the home. You’re selling the results of what that home does. Maybe they wanna be in a safe neighborhood. Let’s say, if you sold insurance, I’m just giving you random examples. You’re not selling insurance policy. You’re selling them the financial protection. So when he passes away, his family’s taking care of that’s what you’re selling. You’re, you’re not selling the Lambo. You’re selling the results of that feeling. The driver’s gonna get when he cruises by in his neighborhood and everybody watches him. That’s what you’re selling. You’re selling the results of what those things does for the client.

Tim Jordan:

And it’s amazing. I’m going through like catalog list right now. And this can apply to a $5 item and a half a million dollar Lambo. It is universal and I love it. So I’m sold, right? Again, I’m sold, I’m buying what you’re selling, man, but what are some of the biggest mistakes that you make? Cuz maybe our listeners are thinking, right. I get it. I’m gonna start working on this. Like I understand I have to sell better. I have to be a little more psychologically savvy. I have to be more tactical and I’m gonna know pointed in the direction that we’re moving in and the way they’re trying to sell. But now that I’m convinced that I need to be doing this, what are some of the biggest mistakes people make in trying to sell?

Jeremy:

Yeah. I think one of the biggest mistakes that entrepreneurs and salespeople make when they’re trying to sell something. And like I said, that can come across in your ads or your brand, your individual salespeople that are selling your products or service is they come across way too excited and enthusiastic about what they sell. And then they try to talk about their solution way too early in the conversation. Now, do I mean be boring? No, but they come across way too excited. Okay. Now when I say that events, people are like, no, I’ve been taught that I have to be excited about what I sell. Right? Like if I’m excited that somehow they’re gonna get excited as well. And just think it’s important, cuz I’m excited about it. But nothing could be further from the truth. According to behavioral science, human psychology, completely, the data shows something completely different the way our brains are wired.

Jeremy:

Now, do I mean be excited about what you do. Yes. But you have to keep that to yourself. You have to keep that internal. We have to get rid of what I call commission breath. It’s the worst breath ever. Like you gotta start brushing your teeth. Right? And here’s what we have to understand. And this is probably the same in ads and marketing. But especially if you have a sales team and they get on the phone or on zoom or in a personal, let’s say you’re a brewer and you own an e-commerce business. And you have a meeting where you’re trying to convince somebody, a supplier, or something to do something for you. Here’s what we have to understand. Human behavior 101 within the first seven to 12 seconds of any sales interaction you’re involved in your prospects are subconsciously picking up on social cues from you. Okay?

Jeremy:

Subconsciously, we can’t even help. It’s a way our brains are wired as human beings. They’re picking up on our verbal and nonverbal cues from our tonality and what we are saying and or asking that triggers their brain to react in one of two ways, okay. Now, if we come across, let’s say in that ad or we come across on sales call, let’s say you got a sales team. If we come across aggressive, if we come across needy, like we need the sale we’re attached and we don’t know the right questions to ask. It actually triggers the brain of your prospect to go into what we call fight or flight mode. Now everybody’s heard of fight or flight, but unless you’ve kind of really gone into human psychology a lot of people don’t know what it means or how is it triggered. Okay. And that’s where, you know, if you’ve got sales people on a call, the prospect tries to get rid of ’em real quick.

Jeremy:

Like, Hey, can you just send me a quote? Hey, I’m busy. Can you just call me back later? Or you know what? We’re good. We already have somebody for that. Like we don’t need that. We don’t have the money for that. Can you call me back a week, a month? Can you just send me a proposal? Can you just send me a quote? Okay. That’s because we triggered fight or flight mode by something we’ve said or didn’t ask now on the flip side, once we learn how to work with human behavior in our sales process, if we come across more neutral, like not biased, we’re not sure if we can even help yet. We don’t know enough about their situation. If we come across more calm, like relax and especially here’s the keyword “detached”. If we come across detached and we know the right questions to ask, it triggers their brain to become curious enough where they feel like they want to engage.

Jeremy:

They want to open up to us because they feel like we might have something very important for them. So we have to learn, especially if you have sales people, we have to learn how to get them to come across more detached from the expectations of making the sale and really focus on whether or not there’s a sale to be made in the first place, whether or not they have problems that you can actually solve. Now, like I said, if you got a sales team do or let’s say if you’re an entrepreneur and you’re in a meeting trying to persuade somebody, do I mean that you shouldn’t try to do that? Hell no, you should try to do that on every single call, but you have to keep that to yourself because the moment they feel that you are trying to sell them is the moment they do what they start to emotionally shut down. That’s one of the biggest mistakes that sellers and entrepreneurs make.

Tim Jordan:

So much to think about and a ponder to apply. You know, I started off with this podcast thinking that we were gonna talk about the business side of things. And you’re right, the being able to sell partners and strategic, even contractors and manufacturers is important, but transferring all that into our ad, copy our packaging, the images, no matter where we sell, what we sell, we are selling and those truth supply. And sometimes we forget that we oversimplify and we probably miss a lot of big opportunities.

Jeremy:

I mean, if you’re trying to recruit some big employee for you, what are you doing? You’re trying to persuade your influence. You’re trying to move others. I mean, we have to learn these skills if we wanna keep up with people that are learning. Cause there’s people out there I hate to tell everybody, but that are learning these skills right now. And you, without those skills compared to somebody who has those skills, what do you think is gonna come out on top?

Tim Jordan:

Exactly. I love it. So if our listeners do not want to get left behind and wanna come out on top, I’m sure that you have some more information that can be you shared. I know that you’ve got a lot of free content community at salesrevolution.group, right? That’s a free Facebook Group.

Jeremy:

Yeah. If they wanna go learn some of those details. Cause we, we even have a lot of people, like I said, we even have a lot of eCommerce clients that we, you know, we hire and train their sales people for them. We actually manage our salespeople. Big, big, huge people you guys have heard about in e-commerce space as well. But every industry, if they wanna learn more details, get some free resources, just have, ’em go to, like I said, salesrevolution.group, right. When they join, it’s like a quick two question survey. So we know what industry they’re in and like what type of products or service just tracks our data in there. And then right when they join somebody on my team will message them a free training called the NEPQ 101 mini-course. And there’s a list of different questions they can ask for different sales situations all the way from recruiting to negotiating, to actual sales calls for your sales people if you have a sales team, and we just give that for every person that joins like a free 45 minute training, they just have for free, you go live in that Facebook group about three to four times a day with different trainings, different Q and A’s different subject matters. So yeah, people really like that. For sure. So they’ll like that? Yeah.

Tim Jordan:

And you’ve got your own podcast, right?

Jeremy:

I do. Yeah. Closers Are Losers. We started about six, seven months ago. We got about 20,000 downloads a month on there. We’re growing that sucker and we just, you know Matt Writers, is our CEO of the company, my business partner. And we typically over different subject matters all the way to, how to run a business, how to manage sales people all the way to individual, like what to actually have your sales people say on sales call. So they can always go to that too. But salesrevolution.group is where they’re gonna get them most value for sure.

Tim Jordan:

Got it. Love it. Well, I appreciate you being on. I know that you’ve got a lot of stuff going on. You’ve got a lot of content that you’ve been putting out and meeting a lot of really cool folks get involved in a lot of cool communities. So I appreciate you taking the time to come and share some of this wisdom with our audience. Again, any of you that are listening, make sure to go to salesrevolution.group and check out that free information and make sure if you found some value in this podcast episode, leave us a review on order for podcast platform. You’re listening on, leave us a review, let us know what you think. And of course, that shows us some love gets us little ranking juice, which we always appreciate. Jeremy, any other final words before we wrap this up?

Jeremy:

No, my final thought and cuz you know, I do a lot of these podcasts each week and they always ask me the same question. What’d your final thought? Okay. Final thoughts. I want you to, we talked a little bit about it all selling is, and it doesn’t matter if it’s branding. If it’s marketing, if it’s sales doesn’t matter, all selling is all branding is, is about one thing on if I could describe it in one word, it’s about change. That’s all sales is that’s all persuasion is, change in one word. It’s about how good you are at getting your prospect to view in their mind that by changing their situation means purchasing your product or service that them doing that is far less risky for them than them doing nothing at all. Staying in the status quo, their problems stay the same and nothing never changes, which is more risky. So sales all about change. That’s my final thought.

Tim Jordan:

Love it. Great thought to end on it. Thank you all for listening to this episode. We’ll see you next week.


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